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If you are one of the men who decided to change his life for the better and turned to Russia and Ukraine looking for a wife, you probably noticed that many women on those dating sites search for much older men. What age difference is acceptable for Ukraine girls and Russian brides? 10 years older? 20 years older? 30 years older?
Marriages between two people with big age difference are becoming more and more common in Ukraine and Russia. Many psychologists consider these marriages as being healthier relationship brought about the mixture of man's experience and woman's youth. You can see many examples among Russian celebrities: Andrei Konchalovskiy, Oleg Tabakov, Dmitriy Dibrov and many, many others. The main reason for these marriages is that women here look for stability in the relationships. Russian women say about men in their late 40's and 50's "perebesilisi" which means "they have done with their youthful follies". Even though Russian and Ukrainian women do not make age difference an issue, it should be something to consider a few years down the road.
The idea of having a very young and beautiful wife is very flattering and exciting for many men. But before starting the whole process you need to determine what kind of relationship you are looking for, what kind of woman you are looking for and what qualities in a woman are most important to you. The main reason why older men end up being disappointed or unhappy using Ukraine or Russian dating sites is that they have unrealistic and wrong expectations.
Is a dream of a 20-30 years younger wife really for you? Of course, women in their 20's are very beautiful, active, fun, intelligent, full of energy, but how much in common do you really have? Things might be great and exciting at the beginning, but when the age difference is too large, it can become a problem as time goes by. It might happen that your young wife will still be interested in making a career, going out and having fun while you are interested more in spending quiet evenings at home.
If you like clubbing, going out a lot and if you are not confused by the thought that chances for such relationship being long-lasting are minimal, then pursue your dream. But if you are seriously looking for a life partner and relationship that will really last, in this case you should search for a woman who will be your companion - a woman with the same interests and life experience.
Another thing to consider is maturity of Russian and Ukraine girls. Sometimes the age is not a good indicator of maturity and readiness to settle down. Take time to learn better your lady, her views and expectations. Talk about her life style, having children, her hobbies and favorite pastime. Ask her how she imagines her future marriage and everyday life being married. Russian brides' interests will show you whether they are ready for commitment and marriage and if she is a person that you really want to spend your life with.
By Lera Cupidonova
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