By B. Carlton Davis
Before you begin using an online dating service it is important that you determine your dating goals. The first goal should be to be honest. You will not be successful in your search for a casual dating partner if you project yourself As being in search of a lasting serious relationship.
Conversely, you will fail quickly if your goal is to find a serious partner, but you come on strong as Mr. Gigolo. Many young singles are not looking for a husband or wife. They want someone to hang out with and have a good time;however they define "good time." That may or may not include sex but whatever it is to you should be communicated early on in the relationship.
Honesty carries over into you online dating profile. Be honest and you will be successful. Exaggerating on your profile only leads to a big disappointment when you finally meet and talk. Your credibility is shot at that point. Go ahead and list that you are the Vice President of a major financial institution, and look like a fool when you can't figure out the 15% gratuity on your dinner check No one is perfect and no one expects you to be. It is more important to share your views and inquire about theirs. Share your interests and goals. Lay them out gradually and continuously to maintain a good conversational flow. Do not give your life story in 10 seconds or less. If your goal is to find a casual dating partner with "benefits" let that be known up front. That way, you will not be wasting time with prospects with differing goals, and you will find who you are looking that much faster. The plus side of the honesty policy is that no one gets hurt. You have tens of thousands of prospects out there and I am sure that someone with matching goals will be found.
B.Carlton Davis is a dating and relationship specialist at the culture specific online dating site http://www.just-what-you-want-online.com.
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